There are two sides to every story.  If you only listen to what the media tells you about Muslims or Christians then you will never understand the reality of the other side of the story.  Pick up a good book, take a course at your local college and travel the world.  Read the Bible or the Qur’an for yourself.  Ask questions.  And above all else do not be satisfied with one little piece of mis-information that your uncle e-mails you about the latest whackos!  Find out things for yourself, and do it with others… it’s just more fun that way.